Ash Wednesday! Go, Go, Green Flag!

Go, Go, Green Flag! 
Written By: Ash Catcher 

I think when it comes to relationships, and friendships… uh I guess even family too we always seem to hyper focus on the negative. It's always well what are the red flags? Why so negative? Here is what I wanted to do this week, I wanted to keep it high vibe and give you my personal top 5 green flags in a relationship! 

1. They have hobbies, if they have a sense of themselves and a core group of friends I am always happy to see someone who can be in a relationship yet still maintain their individuality, like I am so happy you and I can build a life together potentially- but I like to see you can do it without my help too. Independence is sexy 
2. Your work ethic, I like someone who has, I am not sure how to say this, borderline robotic work ethic, I don't necessarily want your work-life balance to suffer and for our relationship to not be prioritized. I have had that issue in the past and was too oblivious to address it, I don't have that issue anymore now. I speak my mind now, maybe a little too much. Work hard, play hard. I like to have fun, but I'll never openly show what I look like after working 13 hours straight. Got to leave something to the Imagination. 
3. Be Upfront: I like someone who tells me how it is, I am not a mind reader, just yet and I really like it when I know a persons standards that they are holding for our relationship Tell me you like me as dumb as that sounds. Consistent communication can curb any doubts in a relationship. Ask me anything. I am a very open person. 
4. Respect: This is definitely higher on my list but I am in an irrational state usually when I am writing something so If your significant other has the ability to not only respect you, their friends, and family, but it would be kinda cool if they can just openly respect others all around. Told you I am keeping it a high vibe. I think respect speaks volumes about a person’s character, and integrity. 
5. The Little Things: I am a stickler for detail- you don't want to see me behind a camera I can take the creative process and run with it usually, that saying less is more does not pertain to relationships. You should always try and go above and beyond. Little gestures, cooking, gifts are all things that show affection. Like a baby bird I am always collecting shiny objects, play your cards right and you may just get one! 

I would love to do part 2! Maybe next time. 


See ya next week!